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FEMALE HEART ATTACKS
I was aware that female heart attacks are different, but this is the best description I've ever read.
Women and heart attacks (Myocardial infarction)... Did you know that women rarely have the same dramatic symptoms that men have when experiencing heart attack .... You know, the sudden stabbing pain in the chest, the cold sweat, grabbing the chest & dropping to the floor that we see in the movies. Here is the story of one woman's experience with a heart attack.
'I had a heart attack at about 10 :30 PM with NO prior exertion, NO prior emotional trauma that one would suspect might've brought it on. I was sitting all snugly & warm on a cold evening, with my purring cat in my lap, reading an interesting story my friend had sent me, and actually thinking, 'A-A-h, this is the life, all cozy and warm in my soft, cushy Lazy Boy with my feet propped up..
A moment later, I felt that awful sensation of indigestion, when you've been in a hurry and grabbed a bite of sandwich and washed it down with a dash of water, and that hurried bite seems to feel like you've swallowed a golf ball going down the esophagus in slow motion and it is most uncomfortable. You realize you shouldn't have gulped it down so fast and needed to chew it more thoroughly and this time drink a glass of water to hasten its progress down to the stomach. This was my initial sensation---the only trouble was that I hadn't taken a bite of anything since about 5:00 p.m.
After it seemed to subside, the next sensation was like little squeezing motions that seemed to be racing up my SPINE (hind-sight, it was probably my aorta spasming), gaining speed as they continued racing up and under my sternum (breast bone, where one presses rhythmically when administering CPR).
This fascinating process continued on into my throat and branched out into both jaws..... 'AHA!! NOW I stopped puzzling about what was happening -- we all have read and/or heard about pain in the jaws being one of the signals of an MI happening, haven't we? I said aloud to myself and the cat, Dear God, I think I'm having a heart attack!
I lowered the footrest dumping the cat from my lap, started to take a step and fell on the floor instead. I thought to myself, If this is a heart attack, I shouldn't be walking into the next room where the phone is or anywhere else .. But, on the other hand, if I don't, nobody will know that I need help, and if I wait any longer I may not be able to get up in moment.
I pulled myself up with the arms of the chair, walked slowly into the next room and dialed the Paramedics .. I told her I thought I was having a heart attack due to the pressure building under the sternum and radiating into my jaws. I didn't feel hysterical or afraid, just stating the facts. She said she was sending the Paramedics over immediately, asked if the front door was near to me, and if so, to unbolt the door and then lie down on the floor where they could see me when they came in.
I unlocked the door and then laid down on the floor as instructed and lost consciousness, as I don't remember the medics coming in, their examination, lifting me onto a gurney or getting me into their ambulance, or hearing the call they made to St. Jude ER on the way, but I did briefly awaken when we arrived and saw that the Cardiologist was already there in his surgical blues and cap, helping the medics pull my stretcher out of the ambulance. He was bending over me asking questions (probably something like 'Have you taken any medications?') but I couldn't make my mind interpret what he was saying, or form an answer, and nodded off again, not waking up until the Cardiologist and partner had already threaded the teeny angiogram balloon up my femoral artery into the aorta and into my heart where they installed 2 side by side stents to hold open my right coronary artery.
'I know it sounds like all my thinking and actions at home must have taken at least 20-30 minutes before calling the Paramedics, but actually it took perhaps 4-5 minutes before the call, and both the fire station and St. Jude are only minutes away from my home, and my Cardiologist was already told to go to the OR in his scrubs and get going on restarting my heart (which had stopped somewhere between my arrival and the procedure) and installing the stents.
'Why have I written all of this to you with so much detail? Because I want all of you who are so important in my life to know what I learned first hand.'
1. Be aware that something very different is happening in your body not the usual men's symptoms but inexplicable things happening (until my sternum and jaws got into the act). It is said that many more women than men die of their first (and last) MI because they didn't know they were having one and commonly mistake it as indigestion, take some Maalox or other anti-heartburn preparation and go to bed, hoping they'll feel better in the morning when they wake up ....... which doesn't happen. My female friends, your symptoms might not be exactly like mine, so I advise you to call the Paramedics if ANYTHING is unpleasantly happening that you've not felt before. It is better to have a 'false alarm' visitation than to risk your life guessing what it might be!
2. Note that I said 'Call the Paramedics.' And if you can take an asprin.. Ladies, TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE! Do NOT try to drive yourself to the ER - you are a hazard to others on the road. Do NOT have your panicked husband who will be speeding and looking anxiously at what's happening with you instead of the road.
Do NOT call your doctor -- he doesn't know where you live and if it's at night you won't reach him anyway, and if it's daytime, his assistants (or answering service) will tell you to call the Paramedics. He doesn't carry the equipment in his car that you need to be saved! The Paramedics do, principally OXYGEN that you need ASAP. Your Dr. will be notified later.
3. Don't assume it couldn't be a heart attack because you have a normal cholesterol count. Research has discovered that a cholesterol elevated reading is rarely the cause of an MI (unless it's unbelievably high and/or accompanied by high blood pressure). MIs are usually caused by long-term stress and inflammation in the body, which dumps all sorts of deadly hormones into your system to sludge things up in there Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know, the better chance we could survive.
A cardiologist says if everyone who receives & shares this, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life.
Thank you Marydon. I have forwarded this to my address book. I hope I never need the info but my hubby had a "silent" hear attack in 1995 and his only symptom was overwhelming exhaustion. We went to the ER and it was a heart attack. I was blessed that day because he is still with me.
ReplyDeleteThank you Marydon for posting this. I would have had no idea that a heart attack could start with symptoms like this.
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♥Lee Ann
Thank you for this important information.
ReplyDeleteOh, my goodness. This was so scary to read but SO important. I never associated the feeling of indigestion as having anything to do with a heart attack. This information could definitely save someone's life. Thank you, Marydon.
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Jane
Good morning my dear friend,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing...This is information that definitely needs to be shared with everyone. Hope you are doing well. Have a wonderful day.
Hugs and Kisses,
♥Ana
Marydon,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for putting this on your blog and sharing it with all of us. I will definitely pass it on...
Interestingly enough, my mother had a heart attack, although she didn't know it at the time and drove herself to the hospital...she didn't want to 'bother' anyone! when she arrived, they life-flighted her to a larger hospital so she's lucky!
thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
OH WOW THIS BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES!! THANKS DEAR MARYDON, I NEVER KNEW THE SYMPTOMS OF A HEART ATTACK, FOR WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT FOR ME!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Marydon.
ReplyDeleteWhen I had my cardiac scare this past year it was the pain in my jaw that made me get to the doctor's office. Admittedly, I should have asked for help at the restaurant we were sitting in. I just didn't want to scare my kids or make a scene. Shame on me...had I died they would have been worse than scared!
Thanks, Marydon. :) I'm very bad about my health when it comes to not going to the doctor for rarely anything. I'm not sure that I'll ever change that, but I still like to remain informed. ♥
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Linda
Marydon, I am so sorry to hear you went through this. Heart disease is a killer in my family--my father, my mother, a brother and 2 sisters. I do know this info and thank you for sharing it here...the more that knows the better.
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ReplyDeleteI have seen this numerous places and I always read it again! Thanks for posting this.....:) I still would like to talk to your husband about the Civil War...just really frayed around the edges right now...but I will be in touch! :) Sandy
Wow. Thank you. I will share this too. My MIL has had 2 heart attacks and one she drove herself to the hospital. They say she is lucky to be alive.
ReplyDeleteWhat wonderful information, glad her story had a good ending.
ReplyDeleteI have heard that the symptoms are different for us gals. So glad that all is well with you!
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deb
Thank you for sharing this with us. We always need to be educated about health issues that we think might never happen to us.
ReplyDeleteDeanna
Oh my Marydon what a blessing you are to all of us. This is really an exceptional well written description of what we need to understand about our hearts. Scary as heck to realize how easily this can happen to any one of us.
ReplyDeleteYour a sweetheart for taking the time to share it.
I came over here from Nezzy site and her post was about broken hearts and it broke my heart to read her post and then I come over here and yours is about hearts too.
Strange isn't it. How this happens on these blogs.
Hope today is a wonderful day for you and sweet Harold. If you were here we could eat and laugh some more.
I have another durn Eval test today at 1:15pm and not sure how I will make it through that test when I am barely walking today. hahaha Oh well they can see the real me for sure today
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Maggie
I am a major hypochondriac so over the weekend I just knew I was having a heart attack. Turns out I had an absessed tooth and needed a root canal. I feel much better. This is still good info to have - thank you!
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My sister in law had sent me this email last year and I thought it was excellent advice. Like many others, I had no idea that women's heart attack symptoms were nothing like what men get! It's an eye opener indeed!!
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Marydon, you WON the book on my blog give away, of The Upside of Downsizing by Karen O'Connor.
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This post of your is very important, about recognizing symptoms.
Thank you, Marydon. This is information everyone should know.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for the info... I will pass it on to others!!!
ReplyDeletehugs~~~ Daphne
Hmmmmm...this is very interesting my friend. Thank you for this. I will take note. It is funny because just the other day I was feeling some of these things...and I said to my daughter..this is weird I feel like I am having a heart attack..it did go away...but isn't that odd. I will be on the look out and think twice if this happens again. Hugs and love to you for your caring ways. xoxoxxo What a blessing you are.
ReplyDeleteHello Sweet Sis...
ReplyDeleteOh what a beautiful share, to LOVE me and my heart too. Some of these symptoms I didn't know about, especially the indigestion.
A beautiful story shared by a beautiful woman. Thank you sweet Sis, for worrying about all of our hearts. You have the BIGGEST heart out there in blog land.
I love you and miss you. All my love, Your Lil Sis, Sherry
Wow, what a great post. Very informative. I hope next time I have heart burn I will not freak out. LOL
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Hello Marydon- great post and a good way to get the news out. I have just recently heard that now they do not want any heart patient to lay down. You are to sit up and wait for the EMTs to arrive. Also, the first thing you say after dialing 911 is heart attack. If you can't get another word out, this lets them know what is going on.
ReplyDeleteAlso, if you have any pre-existing health problems or allergies, you can call the non-emergency line and they will put it in their records, so anytime a call comes from your number, they can relay it to the EMTs.
It is also wise to leave a list on the fridge of your current medications and the dosage along with the doctors name that prescibed them and your pharmacy. If you are unconsious the EMTs will look for clues on the fridge and kitchen table for medicine bottles and information. If you have family members present- they can grab the information and hand it to the EMTs as they take you out the door to hand to the ER staff.
As you know- every second counts.
So glad you posted this- Hugs- Tete
I have read this before, but thanks for sharing Marydon!! We all need a reminder every now and then!
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Always good to review these important facts! Thank so much, Marydon, for sharing these! WE just never know when we might need this information!
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Coralie
Very good advice, Marydon... I have read several articles telling us women that our heart attacks are different from men's... We need to hear this info over and over...
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Hugs,
Betsy
very informative - thanks Marydon
ReplyDeleteI hate that you had to go through such a horrifying experience in order to alert us to the symtoms, etc... of heart attacks in women. I'm so glad you were able to call the paramedics!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this important information. Hope you are alright and doing well now.
ReplyDeleteMicki
Thank you for tis important info!!
ReplyDelete*hugs*deb
Oh this is SUCH an important message. It is so true that women don't have the same symptoms as men and we are always so quick to shrug it off.
ReplyDeleteI am so very happy and blessed that your sweet heart is still with us.
Oh my goodness, what a captivating story. I read every word, taking it to heart (pardon the pun.) This is such a good reminder for us. Thank you for sharing. This could save a life.
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Oh wow, Marydon, thank you for this...My husband had a heart attack in September and we were very fortunate that the paramedics got here in time...
ReplyDeleteSince then, I have done alot of reading about it and I appreciate you sharing this with us.
I hope you are having a nice evening!
XO
Wonderful post Marydon! Such great information, thank you so much for sharing, blessings, Nan
ReplyDeleteThanks for your visit and sharing this..very scary! I hope you are alright now...take good care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteThis is such an important post Marydon. Thank you for sharing it. Neil had a family member who was awake all night with terrible back pains. Before morning she was throwing up and crying by the time she finally decided to go to the hospital it was too late and she died that night. She had no idea it was a heart attack, she was otherwise healthy. What a shock to the family.
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Great information, thank you my friend! HUGS!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing. It is great to know. I know all of my hubbys heart attack has been silent. They only show up through blood test. I have been trying to learn about women who have had heart attacks. Have a great day. Your Missouri Friend.
ReplyDeleteThank you immensely for this post!!!
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Hope your day has been filled with all kinds of good stuff! Thanks for visiting me this past week!
A zillion thanks go your way. I am so glad you are ok. You are blessed.
ReplyDeleteJoyce M
This was a stunning post! Thank you for posting this. I, too, have some heart problems, and I appreciate you posting this information!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this, Marydon. I wouldn't have recognized these symptoms as a heart attack, but now I'm aware.
ReplyDeleteThat was amazing ... and scary. Thank you so much, Marydon, for sharing this with all us ladies... someone I am sure will benefit from it.
ReplyDeleteHello Marydon, I can't understand the paramedis intructing the lady who was having a heart attack, to lie down?? Sitting up in an armchair or recliner would have been better. I also had a strange heart attack..as an R.N I should have recongnised it, but I didn't. Mine was as I was driving to visit a patient. It felt like my bra was too tight and I thought to myself,'Why on earth had I put it on that morning?' I was able to pull off the road. I wound my window down to get fresh air (O2) then I realised this was a heart attack.I experienced palpatations into my throat, and felt dizzy. I calmly sat upright and breathed in through my nose and out my mouth until it passed. Mine was not an M.I. but rather bundle branch blockage....the electrical system. I am now on medication and occassionally get episodes. In time I will recieve a Pace Maker, or I may die first? God Bless CM
ReplyDeleteOh I forgot to say.
ReplyDeleteWith some heart attacks not only is there the indigestion, but some actually feel the need to defecate..
Well, Marydon, that is great information, but you kinda just scared me to death!
ReplyDeleteIs this what happened to you?
Ohmygosh Marydon, that was a scary time. Hope you are doing well. I will keep you in my prayers. I know all the signs as I do have a heart condition. Take care:)
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